STOKES

Celebrating the life of a fallen warrior

By Sgt. Andy Hurt

NEAR KARMAH, Iraq (August 5, 2007) - Corporal Sean A. Stokes, who was killed

July 30 in Al Anbar province, is a legend. Not because his body now lay

still, rather because he lived a life of selfless devotion and valor that

those who hear his story will never forget.

          The warriors who know the tale of Sean Stokes - the young private

who took point in Fallujah, or the compassionate selfless Marine who put

nothing before the safety of his brothers - will tell his story for ages to

come. Those who have not yet heard of Sean Stokes needn't look far. True

accounts of his actions in Fallujah saturate the internet, and Stokes' name

peppers mainstream non-fiction war stories. His name is synonymous with

heroism and passion, and the more we can tell his story, the more we honor

his life and the hundreds of warriors like Stokes who have gone before us

and fill our ranks.

Anatomy of a KIA

The details of the war are grim. When a Marine arrives in country, he is

issued an administrative number, which some refer to as a "kill number." He

is required to carry his kill number in a pocket on his left arm. In the

event the Marine becomes a casualty his number is pulled and passed over an

endless network of radio waves. No name is passed at any time until that

Marine's next of kin have been contacted.

The official process is simple and sterile. When a casualty occurs, a

situation report is passed to the Command Operations Center. A medevac

request goes up the chain of command and the wounded are evacuated. At this

point, spirits are high among Marines who believe in resiliency and modern

day miracles - which do happen, rarely - and our best nature knows the

Marine will pull through and everything will be okay.

The phone rings.

Marine: "... okay."

The Marine hangs up the phone.

"Time of death: eleven forty-five."

The office goes completely silent and eyes are fixed upon boots. Heads fall

into hands and somewhere above the bloody sand in a black-smoke sky an angel

ascends into heaven.

Life and Death of a Warrior

Sean Stokes enlisted in the Marine Corps shortly after the Sept. 11, 2001

terrorist attacks. He joined 3rd Battalion, 1st Marines in 2004 after

running into trouble with his previous command. As a punishment, he was

busted down to the rank of private, and transferred to 3/1 - the next unit

scheduled to deploy. A twist of fate perhaps, as Sean would make history in

the coming months. Under normal circumstances he would have been discharged.

"Sean wasn't upset about it at all. He considered it an opportunity to prove

himself and make new friends," said 1st Lt. Jeffrey Sommers, Stokes' platoon

commander at the time.

Sommers' description of Sean echoes that of Auburn, Calif., citizens who

knew him. A high school guidance counselor described Sean as a young man who

wanted to "develop into a real strong, ethical, moral human being."

During Operation Phantom Fury, the reserved Marine would prove himself a

Spartan in the streets. Sommers said he witnessed Stokes commit maniacal

acts of bravery, to the point where the platoon commander questioned his

sanity.

"I would see Marines do things and think to myself 'Hey, glad everything

turned out the way it did, but what the hell was going through your head?'"

One example comes from Nov. 10, when Stokes, who served as the front-walking

"point man", and his team were ambushed by enemy forces with grenades and

automatic weapons fire. Stokes sustained shrapnel wounds in his lower legs

and refused to be evacuated while he provided suppressive fire, allowing an

adjacent unit to destroy the enemy.

Stokes maintained walking point each day of battle. Being the point man

meant he was the first Marine down every street, in every house and every

room - hundreds of rooms. He was the first Marine to be attacked by the

enemy and the first to report the situation to his squad leader. Bullets,

grenades, rockets and roadside bombs were around every corner.

When asked to describe Sean Stokes' motives for taking the lead into so much

danger, Sommers explained: "You don't do it because of courage, and you

don't do it because you want to. Stokes probably did it because he knew

there was more to the battle than the few seconds involved in opening a

door."

He continued: "That kind of compassion ... I won't really ever understand.

Human factors in those situations take a grip of you long before honor,

courage and commitment."

Bing West, author of No True Glory, met Stokes during the battle of Fallujah

and fondly recalled Stokes as "A grunt with (Lima Company) 3/1 with a great

smile."

"He was then living on the third deck of a shot-out factory that I was sure

would collapse around us," said West. "Sean just laughed when I told him I

was going to sleep outdoors. He had seen three weeks of non-stop action."

According to a citation for a pending award, during the non-stop action

Stokes saw the face of the death constantly and was wounded several times.

What kept him going?

"At each house, I said a prayer," Stokes later told a reporter. "Please God,

get me out of this one. When I come out of a house, I thank Him, light up a

cigarette and move on to the next one."

When the dust settled and blood was rinsed from the streets, names of men

like Sean Stokes who braved Hell on Earth rose from the ruins. Some Marines

claim to have witnessed Stokes dispatch as many as ten insurgents, others

say it was more than twenty.

After the battle Stokes remained with 3/1, ran through another work-up cycle

and deployed again in Sept. 2005 to the Western Al Anbar province. During

this time, he solidified his bond with his peers and built upon his

reputation as the quiet warrior. He began to recover from his earlier career

glitches and picked up rank and billets of responsibility. When the unit

completed the deployment, Stokes was set to get out of the Marine Corps -

but he didn't.

          "Sean was working at the gym on Pendleton, and I would see him

every now and then and we'd talk," said Sommers. When he told the battalion

he was eager to extend his contract and deploy again with the 13th Marine

Expeditionary Unit, the staff was less than shocked. Another hero of

Fallujah, Sgt. Bradley Adams, had volunteered to join the battalion for the

Western Pacific deployment. The bond between Stokes and Adams gave each

Marine no choice but to stand by his brother.

          "Basically, each Marine said 'I'm not going without him and he's

not going anywhere without me," claims Maj. Shannon Neller, 3/1 Operations

Officer.

          Together, the two were tasked to the battalion commander's

Personal Security Detachment. On the battlefield, this meant constant convoy

operations down bomb-ridden highways and snap tactical decisions in the

interest of keeping the movement as safe as possible. Stokes and Adams, said

Neller, initially conducted operations in separate vehicles but eventually

made their way to the lead vehicle. For Stokes, this meant taking point.

"The (battalion) sergeant major called him "The Pathfinder" out there," said

Neller.

Stokes' last day on Earth went something like this:

Elements from Battalion Landing Team 3/1 were conducting Operation PEGASUS

BRIDGE, a counter-insurgency effort in the Eastern Al Anbar province. Lima,

India and Weapons companies were scattered across the area of operations,

sweeping for weapons caches, roadside bombs and rooting out anti-coalition

insurgents. Stokes and Adams, along with the Commander's Personal Security

Detachment, were darting back and forth from company positions when the

convoy stopped to sweep for IEDs near an existing crater. The Marines formed

a "V" and stepped carefully along the roadside when a blast rocked the area.

When the chaos subsided, two Marines were down - Stokes and Adams.

          "As soon as they passed over the (radio) net PSD had taken two

casualties, I knew it was those two," Sommers said. "I knew if anything ever

happened to PSD it would be those guys." Sommers added he was almost certain

Stokes walked point on the sweep. He did.

Celebrating the Death of a Warrior in Battle

There are many, many ways to cope with a loss. Combat Marines have a great

deal of experience with the situation, and it is all too easy sometimes to

say a quick prayer and hold back tears until a memorial service is held.

Marines are not heartless; like Stokes, they share a sense of duty and know

their mission must continue. By pressing on, we show the Marine is still

with us, and we are respecting his conviction by standing by ours. Stokes'

steadfast dedication to his fellow Marines is one of legendary proportion.

"Sean was in his element here," Sommers said, "this is where his heart was.

A lot of people do this as a job, but he did it because he loved it. He paid

the ultimate sacrifice to protect his brothers and keep them out of danger.

He wasn't fighting for the American people or the Marine Corps, he was here

for Adams and the guys in his platoon."

Sommers stressed the idea that Stokes' selflessness was far beyond that of

average young men.

"Everyone talks about 'service before self, it's all about the guy next to

you,' y'know? And they're taught that but some people definitely don't live

it. Stokes lived it."

Marines will weep as they celebrate his life and his actions. Is there any

place more fitting for a warrior to rest than in the hearts of fellow men

who braved a land of danger? Absolutely not.

 Corporal Sean A. Stokes, the Fallujah Point Man, battalion Path Finder, is

a legend.

This Generation of Heroes

In the midst of a modern "Me Generation," young men like Sean Stokes are few

and far between. Type his name into an internet search, however, and you'll

see the word "Hero" pop up everywhere.

Stokes' actions are boasted on sites like "Marinemoms.com",

"Patriotguard.org" and countless internet blogs from random observers,

parents, wives, brothers, friends, leaders and subordinates. Stokes' name is

already synonymous with heroism in the most sacred of places: the heart of

America.

To speak of legends in the warrior culture has become a history lesson.

Spartan King Leonidas, Dan Daly, Smedly Butler, and perhaps the most famous:

Lewis B. "Chesty" Puller, who was awarded five Navy Crosses during his

service from 1918 to 1955.

What about the Jason Dunhams, the Brad Kasals, and the Sean Stokes'?

"Marines like Stokes have many names. His name might not have been King

Leonidas, but he would've filled the first ranks of 'The 300.*' Marines like

Stokes are the closest thing to legend we have."

The birth of a legend can be overlooked, and the life of a legend is

something special. Fortunately for Sean Stokes, a legend never dies.

(Rest in peace, warrior.)

 

AUTHOR'S NOTE: To tell the story of Cpl. Sean Stokes is an honor. This story

is not meant to place an individual above his fellow Marines, but to

highlight the warrior spirit of the United States Marine Corps and the

thousands of young men like Sean Stokes who have shed blood on the

battlefield in Iraq. Please pass this tale on to those in need of

inspiration, guidance and spirit.

*'The 300' comes from the Spartan battle at the Hot Gates of in 480 B.C. It

is said 300 Spartan warriors held back an overwhelming force of Persians.